Shirley Appleby

Tel: 078679 72339

Email: [email protected]

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Services We Offer

Shirley is a Mindbody Practitioner specialising in lifestyle/stress illnesses, M.E. CFS, and Fibromyalgia. She has a particular interest in how these conditions affect people in the workplace and education and how the effects of this can be reduced or eliminated.

Looking at key areas during the consultation process, helps us deliver a package of care tailored to your specific needs. We have found that the following areas need considering to help people recover from lifestyle and chronic fatigue conditions:

Life Purpose - where we work and who we work with

Lifestyle and Pace – How much we ask of ourselves and how much we give to others; how we choose to live our lives

Relationships - who we allow to be close to us

Finances – the profound impact this can have on our mental, emotional and physical health

Environment – where we live, work and play

Movement – how we sit, stand and move around

Nutritional Health – making sure our gut health is balanced and supporting our immune system

Emotional Health – clearing out the old baggage, leaving space for happiness and health

By addressing these areas, it is possible to be free from pain and the limitations that these illnesses place on us.

Why is an extended package of care needed?

Practitioner-hopping’ to try and find solutions is common in chronic conditions. Our approach differs in that we consider all aspects of the mindbody, not just the physical symptoms. We systematically address the real underlying issues that are present in these illnesses. Stress and trauma set in motion a ‘Domino Effect’ of hormonal deficiencies, blood sugar imbalances, and neurophysiological changes that affect energy, digestive and immune systems, sleep, and mood. In addition to this, we must address the response of the mind at the same time.

To address the ‘Domino Effect,’ a consistent approach and focus are needed. Working through a package of care, you will know what to expect and how much it will cost. Our packages offer savings over the standard ‘ad-hoc’ price, so you pay less and get more results.

Specialist Wellbeing Coaching packages of care for people experiencing a lifestyle or chronic fatigue condition:

Due to the complex nature of chronic exhaustive conditions and lifestyle illnesses, our experience has shown us that clients get much better results when a consistent approach and focus on recovery is applied. Therefore, we recommend a bare minimum of six sessions, preferably more followed by a maintenance care program to ensure wellbeing is maintained. 

• Initial consultation (1.5 hours) £100.00

• One hourly session £85.00

• Three hourly sessions £225.00

• Six hourly sessions £450.00

Life Coaching

We use one to one coaching, tools and strategies to successfully identify, unlock and breakthrough psychological and 'mind' related barriers that have been holding people back both professionally and personally. 

• Initial consultation (1.5 hours) £100.00

• One hourly session £85.00

• Three hourly sessions £225.00

• Six hourly sessions £450.00

Assistive Technology Assessments - Support in Work, Education and during recovery

This service provides an individualised assessment of hardware and software that will help to overcome the physical and cognitive issues experienced by people with stress and chronic exhaustive conditions.

The price of an assessment is £550.00 and includes:

• Identifying needs through a collaborative process

• Determining strengths and assessing the environment

• Identifying assistive technology solutions

• Organising training solutions

Massage for chronic illness: Including Myofascial Release, and MindBody consultation

A massage is an incredible tool when added to an appropriate package of care for someone recovering from a lifestyle or chronic fatigue condition. However, depending on which phase of recovery, a person is in dictates how a massage should be delivered. We understand these different phases and how to adapt our treatments.

• Initial consultation (with history and postural assessment – not needed if you are already have Wellbeing Coaching) 1.25 hours £60

• One hour body treatment £50

• Luxury treatment (full body including hands, feet, and face) 1 ½ hour £75

Aromatherapy Massage

Aromatherapy is the use of plant essential oils for therapeutic purposes and has been used for thousands of years. It can be used to manage or cope with specific physical, mental or emotional problems and is an excellent means of relaxation when combined with massage to help maintain good health and a sense of general well-being.

• Initial consultation (with history and postural assessment – not needed if you already have Wellbeing Coaching) 1.25 hours £60

• One hour body treatment £50

• Luxury treatment (full body including hands, feet, and face) 1 ½ hour £75

Sport Massage and Swedish Massage

Sports massage is designed to assist in correcting problems and imbalances in soft tissue that are caused by repetitive and strenuous physical activity and trauma. The application of sports massage, prior to and after exercise can aid recovery, prevent injury and potentially enhance performance,

Swedish Massage is designed to improve circulation, soothe muscles and aid relaxation. Stroking and gliding; kneading; rubbing; tapping or pounding and vibration techniques are used helping to reduce the impact that day to day stresses have on the body.

• Initial consultation (with history and postural assessment) 1 ½ hour £60

• One hour treatment £50



Are you ready to take back control of your life?

Great! Please request your free Health Appraisal form (via our contact page) and return this to us before booking in for your complimentary no-obligation Phone/Skype chat to explore whether we can work together. During this call, we will answer any questions you have and explain how we work.

If you feel ready to start your recovery, the next step is to book an initial consultation. During this consultation, Shirley will help you explore your issues and assess symptoms and possible causes and look at which of the six phases of recovery you are in. She will tailor a treatment plan for you based on your individual needs. If you decide to work with Shirley, she will recommend a package of care tailored to you.

Finding the right therapist is exceptionally important in the road to recovery. As a team, we believe strongly in cross-referral, so if it turns out I am not the practitioner for you, I will be able to refer you to a colleague who may have a slightly different skill set to suit your needs.

Skype/Zoom/Whatsapp or face to face consultations are available for Wellbeing Coaching and Specialist Wellbeing Coaching.

Assistive Technology Assessments are carried out in person or by Skype/Zoom.

Massage treatments take place in person at my clinic in Ramsgate.

Cash, direct credit (bank transfer), debit cards, and credit cards accepted.

If you choose not to work with us please consider the following when choosing another therapist:

Here are a few questions to ask a potential therapist to get the correct advice, support, and value for money:

• Do you have accreditation or qualification specifically for ME, Chronic Fatigue, and Fibromyalgia?

• Can you explain what is causing so many symptoms in my body?

• Do you have a step-by-step system or recovery plan that can is tailored to my needs? •

• Do you offer support between visits?

• Can I access resources 24/7?

• Do you have a network of qualified practitioners to refer to if necessary for a specific treatment that would be beneficial at an appropriate time?

• Do you have a clear map of where I am in the recovery process?

• Do you know which therapies would help me, and which will make me worse?

• Do you have tools to assess and review progress?

• Would I have access to other people who are recovering too?

• Do you have a clear, up-front pricing structure for my recovery plan?

• Do you offer the opportunity to spread the costs of on-going support?

• How much contact would I have with those who have completely recovered?

• Are consultations offered via Skype/Zoom or telephone for those too unwell to travel or who live too far away?

What our customers are saying

"My time with Shirley had been extremely beneficial, to me. Before I started on my journey of using a wellbeing coach, I found myself directionless in my career and unfocused in life.

During each session we established clear objectives and areas of my life we were going to discuss. Over the course of the 45mins I talked the majority of the time and Shirley made notes. She asked insightful questions about my own thought process and how it was impacting on the things I wanted to achieve in my career. Shirley has a wealth of life experience that can be tailored to suit a broad range of people. I felt that my words were being heard and quickly established a trusting relationship. Shirley gave me small manageable tasks after each lesson that helped me refocus on what I wanted and rehash what we had discussed in the lesson.

I am going to continually be using Shirley as my wellbeing coach for guidance in the future. I am very happy to recommend her to anyone who might ask"

Dave - Reading UK